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Jack Alan Benedict, George Branch, wife of Ruth Benedict; father of Gerri Benedict Butler, and her husband Ronnie; Derek Alan Benedict; and Dale Benedict; died at 74 on Jan. 31, 2011, at his home in Newnan, Georgia. He was born June 21, 1936. He is the ex-husband of Martha Frances Stancil; and son of the late Samuel Clarence and Alice E. Stigleman Benedict. Jack is the grandfather of Michael Wayne Butler; Cassie Lynn Mitchell; Emily Rhiann Benedict; Heather and Lindsay Benedict; and Christian Sifuentes. Jack is the great-grandfather of Logan Michael Butler and Kodey Alston Butler. Jack joined the Marines and was trained as a jet engine mechanic. Later he was a commercial pilot for Piedmont Airlines. He was a member of the Piedmont Silver Eagles, a group of retired Piedmont pilots and flight attendants. Jack kept busy after retiring by joining the Coweta County Volunteer Fire Department. Jack had bravely battled lung cancer for seven months. He is buried with a Marine Corps Honor Guard at Forest Lawn Cemetery in Newnan, Georgia.
Willard "Bill" Harold Johnson, Tempy Ann Branch, husband of Vara Pearl Hales Johnson; and father of Michael William Johnson, and his wife Paula; and Patricia Ann Johnson; died at 79 on Feb. 1, 2011, at Johnston Memorial Hospital in Smithfield, North Carolina. Bill was born Oct. 14, 1931. (Delphia Pearl)
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Michael Shayne Poythress, Samuel Branch, father of Alexis Re Ann Thompson; son of Flora Jean Stancil and Earl Glover; son of Michael Wayne Poythress and Rebecca; and brother of Tracey Duke, and her husband Chad; and Nancy Spivey; died at 30 on Feb. 13, 2011, in New Hanover, North Carolina. Michael was born Nov. 7, 1980, in Wilson, North Carolina. He is buried in Evergreen Memorial Park in Wilson.
Vara Pearl Hales Johnson, Tempy Ann Branch, mother of Michael William Johnson, and his wife Paula; Patricia Ann Johnson; sister of Janice Hales Batten and Betty Lois Pender; died at 80 on Feb. 15, 2011, at the E. Carlton Powell Hospice Center in Lillington, North Carolina. She was born Sept. 20, 1930, in Wilson, North Carolina. She is the daughter of the late James Perry and Delphia Pearl Hill Hales; and widow of Willard "Bill" Harold Johnson.
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Ethel Octavia Hales Stancil, George Branch, mother of Georgeanne Stancil Schore, and her husband Glenn; Renn Stancil Hinton, and her husband Bobby; Hale Ralph Stancil, and his wife Becky; and William Harold Stancil; died at 94 on Feb. 16, 2011, at home in Ocala, Florida. She was born July 24, 1916, in Cuthbert, Randolph County, Georgia. Ethel was born July 24, 1916, in Cuthbert, Randolph County, Ga. She was the youngest child of the late William Madison Hales and Octavia Creech Hales; the widow of George Ralph Stancil, who died on May 9, 2004, at the age of 96; sister of the late Percy Hales and Ruby Hales Brown Blair; and grandmother of the late Jay Benjamin Hinton. She is the grandmother of Ted Schore, and his wife Jean; Alex Schore, partner Don Sandola; Darcee Hinton Sams, and her husband Jimmy; Kip Hinton, and his wife Amalia; Ty Hinton; Ash Hinton; Coree Hinton; Stephanie Stancil DellaVecchia, and her husband Matt; Karen Stancil Champ, and her husband Chad; Suzanne Stancil Stevens, and her husband Chris; Kathryn Stancil Riechert, and her husband David; and John Ralph Stancil. She is the great-grandmother of Sarah, Eva and Grace Schore; Ashlyn, Audrey, Andrew DellaVecchia; Mason, Ella, Lily Champ; and Miles, Grant, Rett and Nate Stevens. She is buried in Forest Lawn Memorial Gardens in Ocala, Florida.
George Robert Dennison, 65, son of Dorothy Stancil Dennison, father of Chris and Eric, died March 11, 2011. (George)
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Henry "Speck" Claiborne Pope, Henry Branch, husband of Carol Ann Lewis Pope; father of Bonnie Gail Pope Nutter and husband Bruce; David Claiborne Pope; and brother of Mary Frances Pope Johnson; Raymond Eugene "Gene" Pope; and Marshall Barnes Pope, and his wife Jean; died at 72 on March 20, 2011, at home in Virginia Beach, Virginia. Speck was born Nov. 21, 1938, in the Glendale Community of Johnston County, North Carolina. He is the son of the late Clarence and Nancy Agnes Stancil Pope; and brother of the late Charles Ray Pope. He is the grandfather of Kansas Grace Pope and Morgan Claiborne Pope. Speck died peacefully in his sleep of a heart attack. Speck is buried in Rosewood Memorial Park in Virginia Beach, Virginia.
Buck Buchanan
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Bernard "Buck" Columbus Buchanan, Harvey Branch, widower of Gertie Mae Pittman, dies at 94.
Buck died peacefully, minutes before a visit from daughter-in-law, Peggy, on Wednesday, March 23, 2011, at The Gardens of Warwick Forest, in Newport News, Virginia. Daughter Lisa was there the day before, on his birthday. Buck told Warwick Forest Chaplin, Joseph Riss, that he was ready to go, a few days before his death. His funeral was held on Monday, March 28, 2011, at Peninsula Funeral Home.
Chaplin Joseph Riss officiated.
Buck was buried beside his beloved wife, Gertie Mae, in Peninsula Memorial Park, Newport News, Virginia. Afterwards niece Kandy Pittman Buchanan, assisted by her mother, Johnnie Jean Pittman, provided a gathering place and dinner for the family in her home.
Buck is survived by daughters Lisa Buchanan Hovater and husband Curt; Hilda Buchanan Holt; sons Larry Michael Buchanan, Stephen "Steve" Wayne Buchanan and wife Debra; daughter-in-law Peggy Gibson Buchanan; granddaughters; Megan E. Buchanan, Brett M. Buchanan, Victoria Nicole Hovater, Annabelle Marie Hovater. Grandsons; John Allen Buchanan, Samuel Aaron Hovater, Benjamin David Hovater.
Sisters Chlorene Buchanan Tuck, Jean Buchanan O'Brien; brothers Harold Buchanan and wife Bessie; L. D. Buchanan and wife Peggy.
Sisters-in-law Louise Buchanan, widow of Melvin; Mabel Irene Pittman Wallace, husband Edward; Charlotte Ann Pittman Viverette and husband James; Brothers-in-law Billy Royce Pittman, wife Jackie; Johnnie Jean Hooks Pittman widow of Harvey Alton; Debbie Moore Pittman widow of George "Mac" McArthur.
Nieces Donna Buchanan Poole and husband Stevie, Shelby Buchanan Wagner and husband Blake, Linda Wilkerson Newton, Frances Wilkerson Tinzen and husband Arthur, Patsy Wilkerson Jones, Peggy Buchanan Baker and husband Danny; Becky Coltrane, Sherry L. Holloway and husband Gilbert; Denise Mason; Holly Ruth Langston Nation and husband Lance; Barbara Gail Pittman and husband Marty; Sandra Annette Pittman Christian, husband Robert, children Cassidy Cheyanne Christian and Ashley Lucas Christian; Angela Carol Pittman sons Shelton Pittman Brown, Devin Brown; Kandy Jean Pittman Buchanan, Vicky Lynn Howard Bradley and husband Ernie; Marsha Kay Howard Farrell, husband Greg, daughter Abby Nicole; Donna Buchanan Poole, Shelby Buchanan Wagner.
Nephews James Dean Buchanan and wife Frances, James Wilkerson, William "Billy" Edward Wallace, wife Joan; Bobby Gray Wallace, wife Nancy; James "Jimmy" Rudolph Langston Jr. and wife Rhonda; Timothy Wayne Pittman and wife Elise; George "Art" McArthur Pittman, wife Sandra, children Parker Paige and George McArthur III; Christopher R. Pittman, wife Jody and daughter Ramsie Jewel.
Great-nieces Stevie Wayne Poole Jr., wife Michelle and daughter Kennedy;Stacy Baker, Amanda Nicole Krueger, Jennifer "Katy" Kaitlin Wallace, Micha Denise Langston, Lorin McLean Cooke, daughters McCalland Grace Cooke and Breazyn Saith Thomas; Alexandria Elise Pittman, Emily Kay Hinnant, Sarah Elizabeth Hinnant, Grace Ann Hinnant.
Great-nephews Daniel Baker, Geoffrey Coltrane and wife Sneha, Bryon Coltrane and wife Shirley, Westley Martin Holloway, Ryan Christopher Martin, wife, Katie and daughter Isabella Katherine; James "Trey" Rudolph Langston III, Drew Langston Cooke, Jordan Lee Pittman, John Zachary Axsom, Matthew John Buchanan, Issac Lester "Lee" Bass III and wife Elizabeth.
He was preceded in death by his wife of 43 years, Gertie Mae Pittman Buchanan, on Dec. 27, 1988; son Walter A. Buchanan; sisters Mabel Buchanan Williamson, Emma Ragland Buchanan Martin, Edith Buchanan; brother Melvin Louis Buchanan; sisters-in-law Ruth Elder Pittman Langston and husband James Rudolph; Jennifer Kaye Pittman Hinnant Collins; brothers-in-law Arnold Webster Pittman, Harvey Alton Pittman, Thomas Rex Pittman and wife Carolyn; George "Mac" McArthur Pittman; nephew Stephen Dennis Hinnant; nephew Luther Bruce Buchanan.
Buck was born at home in Mecklenberg County, Virginia, on March 22, 1917. He was the second son of Clara and Luther A. Buchanan. Melvin was older. Buck had 5 younger sisters, Chlorene, Mabel, Emma, Edith, and Jean and 2 younger brothers, Harold, and L.D.
The Buchanan farm was very close to the North Carolina line. It was about 145 miles west of Newport News, Va., and 64 miles north or Raleigh, NC.
Buck's father worked as a carpenter while his mother and siblings farmed. This was a time when kerosene lamps provided light and a woodstove heat. Buck grew up in the picturesque community of Shiny Rock near the town of Clarksville, Virginia. Shiny Rock was settled in the mid-1800s. Part of the farm was located along a winding stream called Grassy Creek.
On Sundays after church, the boys gathered to swing off grape vines into Grassy Creek. Buck learned to swim here along with all the boys in the neighborhood.
From an early age Buck learned to be self-reliant, independent, responsible, and adaptable. His mother influenced him to be a gentleman and mindful of his language. Early responsibilities included carrying logs for the wood stove and tobacco furnace, fetching water from the well which was just 8' from the kitchen door across a porch, pulling and shucking corn. As he grew up, his father taught him carpentry, to milk the cow, to harness and farm with mules, work in all aspects of tobacco, cut kindling and wood, help with the garden, chickens and hog killings.
The work was hard and time consuming but there was time of fun. Buck especially enjoyed rabbit and deer hunting. When he got older he kept a pack of beagles. They were known for their hunting ability and he often sold puppies for top dollar, $25 apiece.
The family attended Grassy Creek Baptist Church in North Carolina, which traces its roots to 1755. The children attended Clarksville Schools. The house was ½ mile down a dirt road from the bus stop.
Buck and older brother Melvin wanted more financial opportunities than farming offered. Buck quit school after 8th grade. He and Melvin moved to Danville, Virginia. They were hired by Dan River Cotton Mill that was founded in 1882 as the Riverside Cotton Mill. The mill wove cloth and made clothing. During WWII the military had a contract with the mill.
Buck and Melvin prospered in Danville and after a few years purchased automobiles. Several years later they married sisters. Buck and Lula had two children, Hilda and Walter. The marriages did not last.
Buck moved to Newport News, Virginia, during the WWII. He was immediately hired by the shipyard to work in the machine shop. These experiences lead to his next job at Remington Rand Business Machine Company. His work ethic and amiable personality was a real plus. They sent him to school in Rochester, New York. Buck learned to be a technician who could troubleshoot and repair all the equipment. At this time the shipyards leased Remington Rand machines. Buck kept them running. Ed Wallace, husband of sister-in-law, Irene, began working at Remington Rand in 1946.
Years later Buck was hired by George L. Smith Typewriters in Newport News, Virginia, a dealer for Royal Typewriters and a competitor of Remington Rand. He worked for them a number of years before returning to Remington-Rand Business Machine Company. His territory was the Tide water area. By the time Buck retired in 1982, he was their Service Manager.
About 1943 Buck met Gertie Mae Pittman, daughter of Fletcher and Gertrude Stancil Pittman, granddaughter of Harvey Arthur and Gertrude William Stancil, through one of his roommates in Newport News, Virginia. Gertie was a pretty beautician who grew up in rural North Carolina on a farm. She was attracted to this handsome, kind man who shared her values. They became a steady twosome. Buck took her home to meet the family and they approved.
Buck and Gertie were married on March 22, 1947, in the First Christian Church, Newport News, Virginia. Gertie's sisters Irene Pittman Wallace and husband Ed, Ruth Pittman Langston and husband James were among those who attended the wedding.
Buck and Gertie joined Parkview Baptist Church. This was also the church home of his sisters-in-law Irene, Ruth and families. As Gertie's beautician business increased she needed a larger shop. Buck and Gertie had a house built with a shop attached. Their new home was just a few blocks away from Deer Park Baptist Church, and it became their church home. Over the years Buck served as a deacon, was on the financial committee, and taught Sunday School.
Buck was an avid outdoorsman. He enjoyed the challenge of the hunt but also loved observing wild animals and felt very much at home in the woods. In 1962 he and a brother-in-law bought wooded land along Bug Island Lake in Shiny Rock, close to where he grew up. This joined his brother, L.D.‘s farm Some of the land was in North Carolina and some in Virginia. At first Buck had a trailer but eventually he had a lake front house with a large porch on his Virginia property. From the porch he saw deer grazing and occasionally a turkey and birds nesting in birdhouse he built. One day Buck saw a black snake climbing up the pole to get the eggs. He took careful aim, shooting the snake in the head and saving the eggs.
Buck would spend 2 or 3 days at a time deer hunting with his younger brother L.D. Sometimes they hunted with L.D.'s hunt club. They used Walker Hounds, considered the best deer dogs. Buck also belonged to the Sterling Heights Hunt Club in Charles City, Virginia. His largest deer was 180 pounds, 8 points with a 20 inch spread. Gertie seldom visited during hunting season, she preferred the comforts of home in Newport News.
In 1971, Buck had the adventure of a life time. He traveled to the high country of Wyoming for a mule deer hunt on horseback. Buck loved the spectacular breathtaking scenery of winding rivers, wide-open prairies, rugged ranges, wildlife, dense forest and the challenges of the hunt. He returned home with a large mule deer and many tales to share.
Buck shared his love of hunting with Steve who fondly remembers rabbit hunting with his dad. Buck kept from 3 to 7 beagles. His favorite was "Jack," who he considered the smartest dog he ever owned. Lisa, 12 years old at the time, begged her dad to take her hunting. Buck relented and on a cold snowy weekend took her rabbit hunting. He thought the cold weather and having to carry the dead rabbits would stifle her interest in hunting. Buck misjudged her, she thought this was fun!
Buck deer hunted with brothers-in-law H. A., Mac and Gertie's brother-in-law James Langston. They were members of the Kenly Hunt Club. The group hunted near Jackson, North Carolina.
Family was important to Buck and Gertie. When Uncle Bernard, as niece Donna called Buck, and Gertie came, the Buchanan family knew they were going to be treated to a delicious fish fry. Buck's mama made favorite pies from his childhood, Chocolate and Egg Custard. Buck also loved Gertie's delicious southern pecan pie.
Buck joined the Masons in Newport News. He was an active member of Warwick Masonic Lodge for many years. Throughout his life he practiced a principle they taught, helping people in need.
In 1972, Buck and Gertie celebrated their Silver Wedding Anniversary with a cruise to the Bahamas. They were joined by Gertie's sister, Ruth and husband James, who were also celebrating an anniversary.
During his years in Newport News Buck purchased a boat and became an avid fisherman. He took his brother, L.D., to his favorite fishing spots on the James River.
Buck had a tractor and planted a large garden each year that included tomatoes, cucumbers, green beans, bell peppers, squash, watermelons, cantaloupe and sometimes white potatoes. He also had a grape arbor and apples trees he planted when they built their house in the 1950s. Always the good neighbor, Buck prepared the preacher's land for planting too.
Larry and Steve participated in sports. Buck and Gertie were there to cheer them on when they played football, basketball and baseball.
In the 1980s, Buck, Gertie, and Lisa, visited Steve who lived in Phoenix. Steve decided to go west after college. He rode his motorcycle and stopped in Phoenix to visit a college friend. Steve ended up staying for several years. This trip was filled with sight-seeing along the way. Highlights included touring the Alamo, Yellowstone National Park, the Grand Canyon and Mount Rushmore and visiting Buck's sister, Emma Ragland Martin, who lived near Fort Worth.
Buck lost the love of his life when Gertie died of a blood clot in her lungs, following a stroke. She died on Tuesday, Dec. 27, 1988, in Newport News, Virginia, leaving a hole in Buck's heart.
After Gertie's death, Buck spent more time at his Shiny Rock cabin. Over the years Buck and L.D. developed a very close relationship and enjoyed reminiscing. They particularly enjoyed deer hunting together each fall. Buck usually joined L.D. and Peggy nightly for supper and conversation. Once Buck killed a wild turkey and gave it to Peggy. She boiled it for hours and then fried it. It was still so tough that the only editable part was the breast!
In 1996 Buck had a stroke and moved into an assisted living facility in Newport News. He recovered from the stroke and was very active, visiting family, friends and driving his Chrysler. He spent Christmas, Easter, July 4, and Thanksgiving with daughter Lisa and family who lived nearby.
When Buck could no longer make the long trip to his cabin, he moved back to Newport News. He sold some of his very desirable waterfront lots and made plans to live in an assisted living home. He kept his car and independence.
Buck stayed in close touch with Gertie's family. He attended the annual Pittman Reunion at Mac and Debbie Pittman's home in Corapeake, North Carolina. L.D. or Peggy often accompanied him and sometime drove him. The last one Buck attended was in 2007.
Buck suffered another stroke. This did not affect his speech or memory but getting around was a challenge. Buck moved into a nursing home. He continued looking forward to visits from family and friends.
Granddaughter Victoria treasures the beautiful porcelain dolls Buck gave her for Christmas. She recalled the trip to Shiny Rock when Buck moved back to Newport News. Victoria loved the tranquil beauty of the lake, the abundance of fruit trees, grape vines and understood why her grandpa loved his bit of paradise.
Buck was not able to attend granddaughter, Annebelle's gymnastics meets so Lisa showed him videos of her performances. Buck was proud of her skill, poise and determination. Annabelle, a Level 10 gymnast, has competed in meets in Texas, Pennsylvania and Virginia. She trains at World Class Gymnastics in Newport News, Va.
Buck was a gentle and caring man who loved his family and friends. Sister-in-law Anne said, "He lived a good life and was loved by everyone." He felt a special connection and reverence for the beauty of God's earth. Buck's legacy includes an appreciation for nature and the lessons it teaches. He particularly felt close to God in the solitude of his home on Bug Island Lake. This beautiful setting close to nature was where he often read his Bible.
Harold Stancil
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Harold Stancil, Josiah Branch, son of Leumos Stancil, grandson of Josiah Stancil dies at 85.
Harold had a wonderful and memorable Christmas with all his family except for “Chris,” who lives in California. After the holidays, Harold's congestive heart became worse. Eventually he was on oxygen, and Hospice came to his Marietta, Georgia, home.
Harold died peacefully sitting in his favorite recliner, with Elizabeth by his side, on the evening of March 24, 2011.
Services for Harold began with a viewing from 3 to 6 p.m. on Sunday, March 27, 2011, at Carmichael Funeral Home, Carmichaelfhome@mindspring.com, 2950 King Street, Smyrna, Georgia, (770) 435-4467. The funeral will be at 12:30 p.m. on Monday, March 28, 2011, in the Life's Hope Baptist Church with the Rev. Bruce Hamrick officiating. Burial will be at the Marietta National Cemetery, Marietta, Ga.
Harold leaves behind his wife of 18 years, Elizabeth, daughter Allison Kay Stancil Bass, husband John, sons "Chris" Harold Stancil II, wife Robin; Russell Alan Stancil and David Tyler Stancil. Grandchildren Laura Marie Stancil Martinson and husband Erik; Miranda Kay Stancil, Skyla Taylor Bass. Sister Gloria Maxine Stancil Moore Burgess Wood and husband Jim; brother Paul Edwin Stancil.
Nieces: Anne Stancil Langston, Debra Sue Stancil Horton Brooks and husband Allen; Gloria Jean Rowles Potter. Nephews: James "Jimmy" Harding Stancil II and wife Phyllis; David Michael Stancil and wife Gerri; Daniel Stuart Stancil and wife Cindy; Sandra Stancil, widow of Phillip Stancil; Paul Edwin Stancil II, David Tyler Stancil, Charles W. Moore II and wife Kathy; Timothy Levi Burgess, Joe McKane widower of niece Gayle Rowles McKane; William Thomas Rowles II.
Great-nieces: Laramie Jo Stancil Werner, husband Brian, children Anden Allen and Brylar Jo; Elizabeth Wood Langston Pierce, husband Stephen and daughter Lilly Angela; Meghan Elizabeth Stancil Furr and husband Joe; Tiffany Shane Stancil Goldsmith, husband Curtis, daughters Jessica Taylor and Madison "Madi" Lou; Julie Anne Stancil Bolano, children Morgan Shane and Christian Andrew "Drew"; Kerri Dawn Horton Bailey, and son Hunter Cole; Christy Michelle Horton Smith, husband John, daughters Hanna Michele and Ashlyn Victoria; Sara Elizabeth Thomas Hall and son James McKane; Kathleen "Katie" Jean McKane, Rachel Gayle McKane. Great-nephews: Marcus Stancil Langston, Daniel Stuart Stancil II, Tanner Gamble Stancil, Paul Edwin Stancil III, Nicholas "Nick" Jurgen Moore, Tristan Charles Moore, Philip Levi Burgess, William Christopher Price.
Harold was preceded in death by son Fred Waverly Stancil, sister Billie Jean Stancil Rowles and husband William Thomas; brother James "Jimmy" Harding Stancil and wife Edna Florine; sister-in-law Winifred Stopford Stancil, niece Gayle Lee Rowles McKane, nephew Phillip Anthony Stancil.
Harold was the youngest son of Leumos Waverly Stancil and Sarah Ethel Harris. He was born on June 25, 1925, in a large rented two story house in Nashville, North Carolina. Dessie Stancil, wife of Leumos' first cousin, Thomas Emmette Stancil Sr. (George Branch), helped with the delivery. Emmette, Dessie and Thomas "Junior" Emmette Stancil Jr., were boarders. Leumos sold Rawleigh Products, a line of home remedies door-to-door.
Harold looked like his father with fair skin and blue eyes. Grandma Minnie said that he reminded her of her mama's folks, the Creeches.
Harold and younger sister Maxine were only 16 months apart. Maxine remembers Harold's taking her by the hand, calling her "Backbean," as he could not say Maxine. Their mother told them they had their own unique language.
In 1927, grandpa Harris had a stroke. Ethel took Paul, Harold, and Maxine by train to her home in Delrio, Tennessee. They stayed for several months.
When Harold was 4 years old, Leumos got a job working at the Wilson County Stockade that housed prisoners. During this time workers took their children to work with them. One black convict, "5 Spot," shackled with a ball and chain, is credited with helping save Harold's life. Harold was riding in the truck cab with "5 Spot" while Leumos scraped the road. Harold was overcome with carbon monoxide from exhaust entering the cab from the holes in the floor board. Older brother Jimmy realized there was a problem when he could not arouse Harold. “5 Spot” stopped the truck, picked up the ball, and ran for water while Leumos started CPR. The water helped rouse Harold and endeared "5 Spot" to Leumos.
Health concerns prompted the family to move to the mountain air of Chattanooga, Tennessee. Ethel and her five children -- Jimmy, Paul, Harold, Maxine, and Billie Jean rode the train from Wilson, N.C.
The family settled down in Chattanooga, Tennessee. Harold and older brother Paul often spent the summers with Grandma Minnie and Grandpa Josiah on the farm near Raines Crossroads, Johnston County, N.C. They were city boys with little understanding of country ways. Harold recalled tossing biddies (baby chicks) into the air, expecting them to fly. Many died. Harold told Grandma Minnie that he found a dead biddie. She told him to toss it on the barn roof so it wouldn't smell.
Another time Harold found a stick of dynamite. Thinking it was a big firecracker, he started to light it. Grandpa Josiah stopped him. Fortunately there was no blasting cap.
Harold and Paul spent the summer of 1935 with Grandma Minnie and Grandpa Josiah. Grandpa Josiah took them along with Minnie, Aunt Mozelle, cousins Euris and Barbara to White Lake, North Carolina. The children rode in a trailer behind his Chevrolet. Harold and Paul got sunburned, and blisters formed before they even got home. Once home Grandma Minnie used an old fashioned remedy, birch balm, on the blisters. This was supposed to be a cooling, healing skin ointment, but for Harold it only intensified the pain. Harold recalled rolling around in the dirt trying to remove the birch balm, to no avail.
Grandpa Josiah had a Chinaberry tree with beautiful pinkish lavender blossoms in the spring. He cautioned the grandkids not to climb the Chinaberry tree as the limbs were brittle and would break. It was also poisonous; as few as six berries could cause death.
Josiah's words didn't slow Harold any. Harold climbed it knowing better. Josiah whipped Harold everywhere he could until Harold crawled under the house to escape!
During tobacco barning, the small kids, ages 3 to 8, were staying at Leafy's house. Ten year old Harold was supposed to be in the tobacco field, but he came in and crawled under Leafy's house and scared the kids by banging on the floor with a stick. Leafy caught Harold and spanked him. Ethel was very upset and quickly told Leafy that the only ones that could spank her kids were Grandpa Joe and Grandma Minnie.
Harold would call the hogs because he liked to see them run. Grandpa Josiah said, "Son, you're going to run the fat off my hogs if you keep calling them like that."
Paul chased Harold through ashes from the tobacco furnace. No one knew the ashes were there. The kids seldom wore shoes. Grandma Minnie had Paul go gather fresh cow manure for Harold to put his feet in because the manure would take the heat out of his feet. Amazingly it worked. Minnie also used fresh manure whenever the kids caught ground itch.
When Harold grew large enough to carry a golf bag, he worked as a caddy at the golf course. The tips were good and provided spending money. This influenced him as an adult. As soon as he could, he joined a country club and became a very good golfer.
Grandpa Josiah died on July 5, 1939, at age 73. Leumos took Harold and Maxine to Josiah's funeral held at his home in Johnston County, NC.
When Harold was in Junior High, a fire destroyed his school. It was winter time. He and Maxine had to walk 2 ½ miles each way to a new school. Clothing was sparse, they were cold, and there was no money for a city bus or trolley. Harold went on to Chattanooga High School. At the end of 10th grade, he quit school. By this time Jimmy and Paul had joined the Merchant Marines and school was not as exciting as the tales they told.
In September 1943, Harold decided to join the U.S. Coast Guard. He served aboard the USS George Wythe, a liberty ship that took part in the D-Day landings on 6th June 1944. Harold invited his mother and Maxine to eat dinner on the ship, then took them on a tour of Fort McHenry in Baltimore, Maryland. Harold knew times were hard and sent money home. In 1948, niece Anne recalled traveling by train with her grandma Ethel to visit Harold in New Orleans. They ate on board the ship; Harold was the cook and had made the mashed potatoes! He took them shopping and bought Anne a BIG stuffed dog. Anne remembered that Harold sent his mother a pair of dolls from every port he visited. Ethel joined the Chattanooga Doll Club. She had over 200 dolls.
After Harold's discharge in August 1953, he was drafted into the U.S. Army as private first class. He worked his way up to Corporal. Harold was discharged from the Army in 1955. He received his GED while in the Army. The Army promised Harold they would make him Mess Sergeant if he would re-enlist, but Harold had enough of the military life.
Harold was an active member of American Legion Post 160 throughout his life.
Harold met Loretta Jean Muse, his first wife, at a Knights of Columbus Dance in Chattanooga. After a short courtship, they were married on March 3, 1956, by a Baptist preacher in the home of his sister, Billie Jean Stancil Rowles, Decatur, Georgia. Harold and Loretta had five children; Harold Stancil II, Fred Waverly Stancil, Russell Alan Stancil, Allison Kay Stancil and David Tyler Stancil.
Harold began his 35-year career working for Sears and Roebuck, repairing appliances. 1975 was a difficult year. He required back surgery and his 19 year marriage ended. Harold focused on his children as he set about raising them alone.
Harold's son Russell shared this "Bees Run" story. "We were taking one of many adventurous walks thru the woods when we were children and my Pop, he always carried a stick to poke around at stuff, and we were in a culvert. There was some kind of paper substance in a little hole, so he poked at it with his stick. It was a hornets' nest, and he yelled, 'Bees Run.' At that moment I threw David up and out of the culvert, and we ran, but poor old Allison could not seem to get out of the way of the bees and got tore up! We often relive that story. Later, Allison drew Pop a picture with her and the bees on it, and the bees were saying, 'Get Allison!' We have often laughed at that story, but not Allison."
Harold found happiness again when he met Georgia native, Ann Elizabeth Crenshaw Turner. They were married in Blessed Hope Baptist Church, Marietta, Georgia, on Aug. 29, 1992. Harold and Elizabeth were active members of Life's Hope Baptist Church.
Harold was always popular with the children. This was never more evident than at the 2001 Stancil Reunion when 1½ year old Kassi Hartley of the Henry Branch went right to him.
Harold was thoughtful and appreciated the little things in life. Following a meal with a relative, he would dash off a personal thank you letter. Harold loved reconnecting with family at reunions and attended many. The last Stancil Reunion Harold and Elizabeth attended was in 2006.
Harold and Elizabeth loved spending time in the Smokey Mountains near Dollywood. They also went on a number of Caribbean cruises. They arranged to leave from Fort Lauderdale and spent several days with Maxine and Jim.
Harold and Elizabeth began hosting an annual Labor Day gathering for their blended family. Through the years a special closeness developed.
In 2005 Harold accompanied Paul, Jimmy, and Maxine's son Tim on a visit to Maxine and Jim's in Fort Lauderdale. They enjoyed catching up, remembering, joking, and laughing.
Harold and Elizabeth participated in the Marietta Senior Games in 2007. He won a gold medal in bowling with a score of 479. Harold kept himself physically fit.
Harold and Elizabeth stood together through the challenges of heart problems and broken bones. They shared an optimism that welcomed people into their lives.
Harold will be remembered for his warm smile, twinkle in his eye, love, and devotion.
Niece Anne shared, "We will all miss Uncle Harold. I can only say that his death is a great loss to all who knew and loved him."
Russell said, "I have lost my best friend, and there is an empty hole now."
"I will never forget everything he's done for me. He was truly a special part of my life and a part of many cherished memories that I will always hold close to my heart," said granddaughter Miranda.
Harold's final words were to this beloved wife, Elizabeth, "I love you Babe."
Tim Burgess
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Timothy “Tim” Levi Burgess, Josiah Branch, son of Gloria Maxine Stancil Wood, grandson of Leumos Waverly Stancil, dies at 58.
Timothy Levi Burgess, Josiah Branch, son of Gloria Maxine Stancil Wood, grandson of Leumos Waverly Stancil, died peacefully in his sleep on April 13, 2011, after battling cancer.
The family received friends at North Chapel of Chattanooga Funeral Home from 2-4 p.m. and 6-8 p.m. on Sunday, April 17, 2011, and from 10-11 a.m. Monday, April 18, 2011.
Services were conducted by first cousin, The Rev. David Stancil, on Monday at 11 a.m. in the North Chapel of Chattanooga Funeral Home.
First cousins Anne Stancil Langston and Debra Stancil Brooks sang "How Great Thou Art" and "In the Sweet Bye and Bye."
Burial was in Hamilton Memorial Gardens, 5351 Tennessee Hwy.153, Hixson, TN 37343. Pallbearers were nephews Tristan C. Moore, Nicholas J. Moore; cousins Paul E. Stancil II, Mark Langston, Daniel Stancil and Russell Stancil.
Tim leaves behind his son Philip Levi Burgess; mother Gloria Maxine Stancil Burgess Wood, step-father Jim, older brother Charles "Chuck" Woodard Moore II and wife Kathy, nephews Nicholas "Nick" Jurgen Moore and Tristan Charles Moore; Aunt Elizabeth Stancil, widow of Harold; Uncle Paul Edwin Stancil.
First Cousins; Anne Stancil Langston, Debra Sue Stancil Horton Brooks and husband Allen; James "Jimmy" Harding Stancil II and wife Phyllis; David Michael Stancil and wife Gerri; Daniel Stuart Stancil and wife Cindy; Sandra Stancil, widow of Phillip Stancil; Paul Edwin Stancil II, "Chris" Harold Stancil and wife Robin, Russell Alan Stancil, Allison Kay Stancil Bass and husband John, David Tyler Stancil, Joseph “Joe” Alexander McKane, widower of Gayle Rowles McKane; Gloria Jean Rowles Potter and husband Thomas "Tommy"; William Thomas Rowles II.
Other cousins are Laramie Jo Stancil Werner, husband Brian, children Anden Allen and Brylar Jo; Elizabeth Wood Langston Pierce, husband Stephen and daughter Lilly Angela; Meghan Elizabeth Stancil Furr and husband Joe; Tiffany Shane Stancil Goldsmith, husband Curtis, daughters Jessica Taylor and Madison "Madi" Lou; Julie Anne Stancil Bolano, children Morgan Shane and Christian Andrew "Drew"; Kerri Dawn Horton Bailey, and son Hunter Cole; Christy Michelle Horton Smith, husband John, daughters Hanna Michele and Ashlyn Victoria; Sara Elizabeth Thomas Hall and son James McKane; Kathleen "Katie" Jean McKane, Rachel Gayle McKane. Great-nephews: Marcus Stancil Langston, Daniel Stuart Stancil II, Tanner Gamble Stancil, Paul Edwin Stancil III, William Christopher Price.
Tim was preceded in death by his father Willard Levi Burgess; Aunt Billie Jean Stancil Rowles and husband William Thomas Rowles; Aunt Winifred Stopford Stancil, widow of Paul Edwin Stancil: Uncle James "Jimmy" Harding Stancil and wife Florine; Uncle Harold Stancil; cousins Fred Waverly Stancil, Gayle Lee Rowles McKane and Philip Anthony Stancil.
Tim was born in Chattanooga, Tenn., on Nov. 13, 1952. He had an older brother, "Chuck" Charles W. Moore, II. Maxine was washing dishes when 4-year-old Timmy came in and announced, “Mama, I know where babies come from!" An embarrassed Maxine not ready for a “birds and bees” discussion quickly replied, "Timmy, go on and play." But Timmy stayed put and continued, "Buzzards bring them!"
Maxine had a history of allergy problems and the family decided to relocate to a more hospitable climate. They moved to Plantation, Florida, when Tim was 9-years-old. The family joined Plantation Baptist Church. Tim was interested in music and during high school he played saxophone in the Plantation High School marching band. A highlight was when the band went to the 6th Pan American Games in Cali, Columbia, South America. After high school Tim donated his saxophone to the band thus enabling a talented student with limited funds to join the band.
Tim took cooking classes in school and after he graduated from Plantation High School he was hired by Williamson Restaurant in Fort Lauderdale. Williamson was considered one of the finest in the area and could seat 3,500 guests. Tim's interest in cooking was life long. He collected and studied cookbooks and experimented in the kitchen. Tim shared his talents with others, often giving away homemade cookies and desserts.
After several years, Tim became a dance instructor for Arthur Murray Dance Studio in Fort Lauderdale. Tim had natural rhythm and was a quick study when it came to learning new dance steps. His friendly personality and good looks was an asset. Tim joined the Sons of the American Legion while in Florida, and gave free dance lessons to veterans. His father was a naval pharmacist's mate, 2nd class during WWII.
Tim had the ability to make even a marginal dancer look great. Cousin Anne Stancil Langston recalls one visit when Tim took her and cousin Debra Sue Stancil Brooks dancing. Within minutes he had Anne, who had never clogged, clogging like a pro!
Tim met his first wife, Cynthia Lynn Moore, who was a student at the dance studio. They had a son, Philip Levi Burgess. The marriage did not last.
Tim moved to Chattanooga for several years before marrying Judy Troyar and moving to Cleveland, Ohio. Tim worked for the Cleveland Browns organization in concessions for several years. He became an enthusiastic Cleveland Brown and Cleveland Indian fan. Tim moved back to Chattanooga and worked as a salesman for a car dealership. He and Judy divorced.
Tim was an avid reader and loved mysteries, especially those of Stephen King. He also enjoyed relaxing to classical music and had an extension library of classical music.
Tim had a variety of jobs over the years from working in sales at men's clothing stores and in grocery store management.
When Tim's uncles; Jimmy, Paul, and Harold planned to visit his mother, Maxine, in Fort Lauderdale, Tim volunteered to drive them down. He found this trip was entertaining and gave him insight into family dynamics as he listened to them reminiscing, joking, and laughing.
Tim's uncle, Jimmy Stancil, attended weekly dances at the East Ridge Community Center. Jimmy often invited Tim and the two of them were very popular partners with the ladies.
When Tim's mother had serious health problems, Tim flew to Florida and helped look after her.
Tim was down on his luck and became homeless in 2005. He went to the homeless shelter for men sponsored by the Episcopal Church in Chattanooga. He so impressed the staff with his strong morals and work ethics that they hired him and gave him a permanent home. Tim assisted with the cooking and supervising the men. He brought a ray of sunshine into their lives.
Tim was diagnosed with serious digestive problems and was force to go on full-time disability. He refused to sit home and do nothing. He continued to work at the mission.
Tim adopted an orphan terrier mix named "Beau." They were constant companions.
In March 2011, Tim began rapidly losing weight. He was diagnosed with stomach cancer. Maxine immediately flew up to look after him. Tim and his doctors planned for him to have chemo therapy and radiation before having his stomach removed. Tim knew the odds were against him but he kept his positive attitude.
Tim did not sit around wasting time by saying, "Why me Lord?" Tim helped those less fortunate than himself as long as he could. When Uncle Harold Stancil died, on March 23, 2011, Tim was there to commemorate his life and reconnect with kinfolks.
Tim was blessed with a phenomenal memory of family history and important dates and was known affectionately as the "repository of family information."
Tim shared his culinary skills. Chuck and sons Tristan and Nick especially loved his peanut butter cookies, cornbread and sweet potato pie.
Tim had many trials and tribulations throughout his life. Chuck recalls that Tim rose above his problems and was content to live a quiet life out of the lime light. Chuck treasures Tim's Bible with its underlined passages. Chuck feels a connection each time he reads them.
Tim will be remembered for his strong faith in God, devotion to family, positive attitude, empathy and love he showed to the downtrodden throughout his life and his beautiful smile.
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Dr. Richard Winston Etheridge, husband of Dorothy Angela "Ann" Kelly for 44 years; and father of Dana Taylor Etheridge; died at 78 on April 30, 2011, in Burlington, North Carolina. He was born Nov. 18, 1932, in Granville, North Carolina. He is the son of Lillian Winston Taylor and Jasper Thomas Etheridge. He is the grandfather of John Wilson Overman III. After high school, he served four years in the United States Coast Guard. He received his bachelor’s and doctorate degree from the Illinois College of Optometry in 1962. Dr. Etheridge opened a practice in Burlington, N.C., in 1966. He is buried in the Bailey Cemetery, Bailey, N.C.
James Radford Johnson, husband of Brenda Heath Johnson; and father of James Paul Johnson; died at 67 on May 25, 2011, in North Carolina. He is buried in the Bailey Family Cemetery in Johnston County, North Carolina. (Delia/Esker)
Sandra Annette Pittman, Harvey Branch, partner of Robert "Robby" Ervin" Christian, and mother of Cassidy Christian, Tiffany Vanegas, Emily McDaris and Thomas Lucas Christian, died at 49 on June 9, 2011. She was born Dec. 2, 1961. She is the daughter of the late Thomas and Carolyn Pittman. She is buried in Holly Springs Free Will Baptist Cemetery in Kenly, North Carolina. (Gertrude)
Christopher W. Ritter,Tempy Ann Branch, husband of Laurie Ann Willis Ritter, father of Sarah Jordan Ritter and son-in-law of Michael and Patricia Renfrow Willis, died at 47.
He was the son of David and Bobby Ritter, his wife Laurie was the granddaughter of Beatrice Hill Renfrow and great-granddaughter of Millard Hill.
He worked as a lifeguard at the East Carolina University pool.Chris lapsed into a diabetic coma and died with his beloved wife, Laurie by his side, on June 24, 2011, at the hospital in Virginia Beach.
The celebration of Chris' life was held at 2 p.m. Tuesday, June 28, 2011, at the Wave Church, 1000 N Great Neck Road, Virginia Beach, Va., burial followed at Rosewood Memorial Park, 631 North Witchduck Road, Virginia Beach, Va.
Chris was a popular physical education teacher at Lynnhaven Middle School. He had previously taught at Thoroughgood Elementary and Kempsville High School. The family were active members of the Wave Church.
Laurie teaches third grade at Kempsville Elementary School, Virginia Beach Public School. Laurie started teaching in 1988. She taught for eight years in North Carolina. She has taught kindergarten through 4th grades. Daughter Sarah attends Rosemont Forest Elementary School in 2011. Laurie enjoys cooking, gardening, church, and spending time with her family.
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Hilda Jean Johnson Kotajarvi, mother of Cindi Aldrich, Jeff (De) Aldrich, Jodi Aldrich, John Aldrich, Sue Aldrich, Tim (Doug) Loomis, Wanda (Michael) Sharpe and Bob Loomis, died at 74 on Aug. 8, 2011, in Garden City, Mich.
She is buried in Glen Ellen Cemetery in Livonia, Mich.
She was preceded in death by husband Garnet Roy "Kody" Kotajarvi.
She was the
and grandmother of Dan, Jeffrey, Ashley, Kaitlynn, John, Andrew and Brittney and
great-grandaughter Haley.
Memorial contributions may be made to the University of Michigan Cardiovascular Center.
William Dallas Phillips, husband of Sandra Hill Phillips; stepfather of Kenny Pilkington and Jeannie Post; and brother of Cathy Wilson, Eleanor Carraway and Mary West, died at 68 on Sept. 13, 2011 at Carolina Rivers Nursing and Rehabilitation Center in Jacksonville, North Carolina. He is the son of the late Zeke and Sadie Heath Phillips. A memorial service with military honors was held at Jones Funeral Home Chapel, Swansboro.
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Aubrey Kent Barfield, husband of Marsha Johnson Barfield and son of Bernice Barfield, died at 57 on Sept. 26, 2011, in UNC Hospital. He was born Sept. 18, 1954, in Wilson County. He is the son of the late Betty Gates Barfield. Kent was the operations manager of Starr Electric Company in Raleigh for more than 12 years. He is buried in Bethany Church Cemetery. Marsha Johnson Barfield is the daughter of Frances Pope Johnson, granddaughter of Agnes Stancil Pope and great-granddaughter of Henry Stancil.
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James "Jay" Elbert Stancil, Samuel Branch, husband of Betty Matthews Stancil; father of Ron Stancil, and wife Cindy; Cynthia Stancil Groff, and husband David; and brother of Charles C. Stancil; Gary Wayne Stancil; Thelma Lee Pipkin; died at 77 on Oct. 10, 2011, with family by his side. He is the grandfather of James Christopher Stancil, and wife Nerisa; Daniel Preston Groff and wife, Rachel; Robert Bradford Stancil; David J. Groff and wife, Summer; Holly Michelle Hines and husband, Thomas. He is the great-grandfather of Christian Tyler Stancil, Chandler Preston Groff, Kyla Grace Hines, Brantly Ryland Stancil, Lillie Christine Groff, Ashleigh Maria Groff, Jay Thomas Groff and Hannah Joy Groff. He was a retired electrician and avid aviator. He is buried in McLaurin at Pinecrest Memorial Mausoleum in Clayton, North Carolina.
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Catherine "Windi" Crabtree Quinby, Henry Branch, daughter of Charlie and Cindi Crabtree; wife of Kyle Quinby; and mother of Kayla Pounds and Christopher Quinby, died at 39 on Oct. 15, 2011, in Durham, North Carolina. Windi was born on March 8, 1971, in Durham, N.C. Windi is the daughter of the late Katherine Braxton; sister of Shayne Crabtree, and granddaughter of the late Jack and Gurnie Crabtree. She attended Clayton High School and Barton College. She is buried in Brier Creek Cemetery in Raleigh, N.C.